OK I figured it out - men (me) prefer baby carriers with buckles, straps, and all sorts of hardware. Why? I don't know, and I really don't care, but when I look at an old-school ring sling, or my wife's
baby hawk (a Mei Tai), or worse yet her Moby wrap, they just don't look like anything I'd like to wear a baby in, let alone wear to schlep a watermelon in.
I believe that the draw of baby carriers for some people is the exact opposite; that you can carry a person in nothing more than a fabric contraption. Good for them. If I wanted to carry my warez around in a bindle stick, hobo style, I would.
I now have two
plus two data points to share with you...
Long time ago we had (or borrowed) an original baby bjorn, which was ok, but for some reason I didn't like it - it felt flimsy and too light. Not that it didn't secure our son, but it was like wearing the discount store backpack. Same goes for using, my inlaw's Snugli from 198x. Yes, both of these brands have updated carriers, which are promoted and available in big box stores, but I was soured on them.
At some point we picked up a
Baby Trekker. Your son or daughter is more or less supported by the crotch against your chest. It has one large waste strap and two snaphook-and-ring sets. It has two nice,
thick shoulder straps that can be secured accross your back or in an uncrossed configuration. Baby against you feels good, although it requires some wrangling to get baby in the carrier and situated.
We're currently borrowing an
Ergo Baby carrier, my second real data point. It's similar to the baby trekker, but more closely approximates the ever popular Mei Tai in its baby-holding geometry. The baby is positioned lower on you, and his/her butt sets in a "seat", with legs wrapping around your stomach. I like how it's made of a coarser, more rugged cotton knit than the Baby Trekker; more like a back pack. It also has a large waste strap, and a plastic buckle that you need to snap behind your neck. It feels like putting on a shirt. Oh - the Ergo also has a flap to cover the baby's head so he or she can (fall) sleep sheilded from bright light.
It's difficult to describe putting on the carrier then inserting baby procedures. I can take a video if there's interest. But I'll summarize:
- It's significantly faster to put on the Ergo than the Baby Trekker.
- Because of the baby's lower position relative to you in the Ergo, your total center of gravity is lower. I think this places more weight on the Ergo's solid waist strap.
- But the Baby Trekker lets you cross its thicker padded straps behind your back. Ultimately this distributes the baby's weight between your upper and lower back. I think this feels better overall.
I'm pretty short, and I make the comments about back support because after a while, you'll start to feel 20 pounds of baby wearing you down (for the record we call our baby-carrier-aged-son Tiny, like you'd call your bouncer-friend the same name).
Bottom line: The Ergo is better for quick and easy on-off. Good for around the house or an active day. But if your baby is going to stay in the carrier for say >30 mins, the baby trekker reduces back strain in the long term.
I would still love to try a frame backpack with baby-seat for comparison. But son #2 is still a touch too young and floppy to use one.